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spotlightonmedicine.com</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2018-05-17T17:58:39+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2018/04/16/the-seven-deadly-sins-greed/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/dollar-bills.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Dollar-Bills</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2018-05-17T17:29:31+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2018/03/15/the-seven-deadly-sins-for-seniors-sloth/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/acedia-by-philip-galle.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Acedia by Philip Galle</image:title><image:caption>Acedia by Philip Galle</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2018-03-15T17:46:39+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2018/03/01/the-seven-deadly-sins-for-seniors-vainglory/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/normanvincentpeale1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>normanvincentpeale1</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2018-03-01T19:44:50+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2018/02/06/the-seven-deadly-sins-for-seniors-envy/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/glitteringvices.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Glittering+Vices</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-01-24T02:07:19+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2018/01/27/a-matter-of-perspective/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/daughter-helping-mom-firstlighthomecare.jpg</image:loc><image:title>daughter 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Image from firstlighthomecare.com.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2018-06-14T18:40:33+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2018/01/15/times-eunuch/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/raymoon.jpg</image:loc><image:title>RayMoon</image:title><image:caption>Ray Moon, an 86-year-old bodybuilder. Fighting time.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/hopkins.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Hopkins</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2018-01-15T15:38:50+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2017/12/24/taking-up-yoga-late-in-life/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/cole-chance.png</image:loc><image:title>cole chance</image:title><image:caption>Cole Chance. Image by YOGATX.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/yoga-for-seniors.jpg</image:loc><image:title>yoga for seniors</image:title><image:caption>Yoga Class. Image from chopra.com</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2017-12-24T00:48:15+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2017/12/12/practicing-contemplation-while-in-a-crowd/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/candles.jpg</image:loc><image:title>candles</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2018-01-01T12:30:50+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2017/11/17/an-art-show-and-an-old-friends-vocation/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/thomas-white-eagle.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Thomas-White-Eagle</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/32x60-roundup-thru-the-cheyenne.jpg</image:loc><image:title>32x60-RoundUp-Thru-the-Cheyenne</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/ours.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Ours</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/youngapache-12-x-21-oil-on-birch-e1447431421901-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>YoungApache-12-X-21-oil-on-Birch-e1447431421901-1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/grantshearer-12-x-16-oil-on-birch.jpg</image:loc><image:title>GrantShearer-12-X-16-oil-on-Birch</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-12-13T20:26:21+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2017/10/25/caregiver-vigilance/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/img_20171022_150927399.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_20171022_150927399</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-10-25T00:27:47+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2017/10/16/true-solitude/</loc><lastmod>2017-10-16T15:59:27+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2017/09/24/mom-on-the-mend/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/img_20170917_125855424.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_20170917_125855424</image:title><image:caption>Mom leaving the hospital</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2017-09-29T15:26:46+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2017/08/21/among-the-stones-far-from-the-madding-crowd/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/img_20170704_170833854.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_20170704_170833854</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-09-16T23:38:02+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2017/08/08/the-older-i-get-the-more-versions-of-me-there-are/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/in-mirror.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title><image:caption>It's me looking in the mirror, but there's an old guy looking out.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2017-08-08T20:14:26+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2017/07/24/touch-me/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/touch.jpg</image:loc><image:title>touch</image:title><image:caption>Image from NPR.org.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2017-07-24T14:30:24+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2017/07/03/you-dont-really-start-getting-old-until-you-stop-learning/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/yoga-poses.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Yoga Poses</image:title><image:caption>Cobra and Upward Facing Dog. Can You Tell the Difference? Image From www.self.com.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2017-07-03T16:51:57+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2017/06/14/the-effects-of-childhood-trauma/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/img_20170610_121722115.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_20170610_121722115</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-09-22T13:14:24+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2017/05/29/finding-immortality/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/fountain-of-eternal-life.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Fountain of Eternal life</image:title><image:caption>Fountain of Eternal Life, Cleveland, Ohio. By Daderot [CC0 or CC0], via Wikimedia Commons</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2017-05-31T14:04:21+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2017/05/15/healthcare-decisions-for-our-parents-and-us/</loc><lastmod>2017-05-15T13:25:17+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2017/04/29/relocating-to-a-retirement-community-a-new-life/</loc><lastmod>2017-04-30T19:25:20+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2017/04/14/relocating-to-a-retirement-community-settling-in/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/redstone-highlands.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Redstone Highlands</image:title><image:caption>Redstone Highlands, the Retirement Community Where Richard Morgan Lives.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2017-04-14T16:34:39+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2017/03/29/the-silver-lining-while-waiting-for-healing/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/silverlining.jpg</image:loc><image:title>silverlining</image:title><image:caption>Image from https://therecoveryact.wordpress.com</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2017-03-29T13:47:34+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/07/02/on-the-ladder-of-the-generations/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/p7022702.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title><image:caption>Mom's walker. which she is now having to use more.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2017-03-23T20:15:27+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2017/03/20/getting-ready-to-retire-finding-yourself/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/img_20160623_031705294.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_20160623_031705294</image:title><image:caption>Traveler--a characteristic of my past, current, and (hopefully) future self</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2017-03-21T21:39:51+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2017/03/11/complications/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/time-and-chance.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Time and chance</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-03-11T00:54:49+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2017/02/28/a-wineskin-in-the-smoke/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/wineskin-300x274.jpg</image:loc><image:title>wineskin-300x274</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-02-28T12:18:48+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2017/02/21/thinking-about-cancer-metaphors/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/psalm-23v4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>psalm-23v4</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-02-21T08:45:14+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2017/02/01/when-time-flees-when-it-doesnt/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/calendar.jpg</image:loc><image:title>calendar</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-02-01T21:27:17+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2017/01/20/thinking-about-cancer-other-peoples-stories/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/prostate_cells2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>prostate_cells2</image:title><image:caption>Prostate cancer cells. (Image by Dr. Gopal Murti/Visuals Unlimited, Inc.)</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2018-01-22T05:16:10+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2017/01/05/thinking-about-cancer/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/blodgett-hospital.jpg</image:loc><image:title>blodgett-hospital</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-01-12T15:24:14+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/12/27/cheat-days/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/sweets.jpg</image:loc><image:title>sweets</image:title><image:caption>Sweets! Image from Yummydelicious.com</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-12-27T16:24:13+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/12/14/identity-purpose-and-belonging-in-retirement/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/p6192761.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Tel Gezer</image:title><image:caption>On a recent trip to Israel. Should I travel more? </image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-12-26T00:37:51+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/11/21/caregiving-imperfections-and-opportunities/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/bobby-wonderful.jpg</image:loc><image:title>bobby-wonderful</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-11-21T17:14:03+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/11/12/regret/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/graduation-methodist-u.jpg</image:loc><image:title>graduation-methodist-u</image:title><image:caption>Education is one of the main areas of regret. Image from Methodist University.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-11-16T19:30:12+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/10/26/the-benefit-of-almost-dying/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/hospitalroom.jpg</image:loc><image:title>hospitalroom</image:title><image:caption>Photo: excella-worldwide.com</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-11-01T11:28:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/10/10/sit-in-your-cell-as-in-paradise/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/adam-and-eve-garden-of-eden.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Peter Wenzel, "Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden"</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-10-10T15:53:00+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/09/26/when-your-adult-child-wont-talk-to-you/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/p7181000.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title><image:caption>With my son Elliot. He was 30 when the picture was taken. Our relationship was good then and remains that way now.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-09-26T20:00:01+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/09/08/lessons-from-a-93-year-old/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/img_7542.jpg</image:loc></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/img_5305.jpg</image:loc></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/img_7695.jpg</image:loc></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/img_1549.jpg</image:loc></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/200-3.gif</image:loc><image:title>200-3.gif</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/200-5.gif</image:loc><image:title>200-5</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/200-7.gif</image:loc><image:title>200-7</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/200-8.gif</image:loc><image:title>200-8</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/img_7762.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Featured Image -- 1271</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-09-08T23:41:15+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/09/02/bloom-anyway/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/img_20160901_164247158.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_20160901_164247158</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/img_20160828_121356520.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_20160828_121356520</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-09-02T13:57:55+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/08/22/retirement-and-the-post-olympic-letdown/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/allison-schmitt.jpg</image:loc><image:title>allison-schmitt</image:title><image:caption>Allison Schmitt--She wasn't smiling after the 2012 Olympics.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-08-22T19:12:10+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/08/17/do-you-need-to-grieve-your-unfulfilled-expectations-for-an-adult-child/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/parentchildargument.jpg</image:loc><image:title>parentchildargument</image:title><image:caption>Relationships between parents and adult children can be rocky. Image from mainstreet.com</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-08-17T14:34:46+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/08/07/death-then-and-now-providential-suicidal-or-just-regrettable/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/couch-potato.jpg</image:loc><image:title>couch-potato</image:title><image:caption>Couch Potato: Doing Oneself In.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-08-07T00:14:02+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/07/20/amazing-love/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/robertson-mcquikin.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Robertson McQuikin</image:title><image:caption>Robertson McQuilkin. Image: Columbia International University</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-07-20T13:19:18+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/07/05/a-mentor-from-hell/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/dante-and-virgil-with-burnetto-latini.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Dante and Virgil with Burnetto Latini</image:title><image:caption>Dante and Virgil with Brunetto Latini. Gustave Doré</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-07-05T12:46:04+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/06/16/look-around-your-family-consists-of-surprise-complex-human-beings/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/rod-dreher.jpg</image:loc><image:title>rod-dreher</image:title><image:caption>Rod Dreher. Image from CNN.com</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-06-16T13:49:35+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/06/07/what-life-goals-are-worth-having/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/scan0053.jpg</image:loc><image:title>scan0053</image:title><image:caption>Dad in the Military; Meaningful Accomplishments Lead to Ego Integrity</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-06-07T15:37:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/05/30/learning-about-life-from-the-obituaries/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/marian-tenhave.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Marian TenHave</image:title><image:caption>Marian TenHave</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/dick-and-jane.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Dick and Jane</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-05-30T15:57:40+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/05/14/bring-an-item-that-holds-great-personal-value/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/p5142756-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title><image:caption>The Cap and the License</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-05-15T00:43:41+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/05/09/dealing-with-bereavement-irrational-thoughts-and-hope/</loc><lastmod>2016-05-09T13:21:58+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/04/27/is-it-just-about-the-t-shirt-experiences-of-a-race-day-volunteer/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/at-the-finish-line.jpg</image:loc><image:title>at the finish line</image:title><image:caption>At the Finish LIne. PC: Team Stellafly</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/midway-through-my-shift.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Midway Through My Shift</image:title><image:caption>Midway Through MY Shift. PC: Team Stellafly</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/the-packet-pickup-team-at-work.jpg</image:loc><image:title>The Packet Pickup Team at Work</image:title><image:caption>The Packet Pickup Team at Work. PC: Team Stellafly</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/img_20160427_171717400.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_20160427_171717400</image:title><image:caption>The t-shirt--just one of many benefits of being there.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-04-29T12:22:19+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/05/05/on-being-an-aging-runner/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/calvin-spring-classic.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Calvin Spring Classic</image:title><image:caption>At the Calvin Spring Classic. I'm in the white hat. Photo by Carlie Bergsma/Chimes</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-04-25T16:50:11+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/04/16/ageism-through-the-ages/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/the-journey-of-life.jpg</image:loc><image:title>The journey of life</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-04-16T15:07:46+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/04/09/doing-being-and-the-flu/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/sick.jpg</image:loc><image:title>sick</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-04-09T23:16:53+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/03/29/life-changes-fast-dealing-with-sudden-bereavement/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/03/john-gregory-dunne-joan-didion.jpg</image:loc><image:title>JOHN Gregory Dunne &amp; JOAN Didion</image:title><image:caption>John Gregory Dunne and Joan Didion</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-29T18:42:03+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/03/18/what-to-hope-for-now/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/03/p9082296-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-18T12:19:43+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/03/03/maturity-and-wisdom-lessons-from-king-lear/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/03/lear-in-the-storm.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lear in the Storm</image:title><image:caption>Lear in the Storm. Image from suziglass.tumblr.com</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-03T15:02:05+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/02/23/45-years-and-past-selves/</loc><lastmod>2016-02-23T18:18:57+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/02/16/the-old-fool-lessons-from-king-lear/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/dyce_lear.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Dyce_Lear</image:title><image:caption>"King Lear and the Fool in the Storm," by William Dyce</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-02-16T23:03:33+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/02/06/disrespectful-adult-children-lessons-from-king-lear/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/lear-bbc-1997.jpg</image:loc><image:title>lear-BBC 1997</image:title><image:caption>Lear and His Daughters (1997 BBC Production)</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-02-06T19:54:02+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/01/26/parenting-adult-children-lessons-from-king-lear/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/lear-dismissing-cordelia.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lear  Disowning Cordelia</image:title><image:caption>Lear Disowning Cordelia</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-01-26T20:59:44+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/01/18/mr-holmes-a-reflection/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/mr-holmes.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Mr. Holmes</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-01-18T20:47:32+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2016/01/06/i-grow-more-intense-as-i-age/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/the-peaceable-kingdom-edward-hicks.jpg</image:loc><image:title>the-peaceable-kingdom-edward-hicks</image:title><image:caption>The Peaceable Kingdom, by Edward Hicks</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-01-06T21:47:38+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/12/28/friendships-who-stays-and-who-goes/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/pc092721.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title><image:caption>From my junior high yearbook. Dave is in the middle, on the left</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/calvin-reunion-10-23-15.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Calvin Reunion 10-23-15</image:title><image:caption>At the reunion (though not with Ben).</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-02-01T22:50:23+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/12/12/older-adulthood-the-second-great-age-of-passion/</loc><lastmod>2015-12-13T02:26:43+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/12/03/spiritual-simplification-or-jesus-at-the-door-with-burgers-fries-and-a-drink/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/hamburger-fries-drink.jpg</image:loc><image:title>hamburger-fries-drink</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-12-03T01:22:34+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/09/26/material-simplification-part-1/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/garbage_can-600x600.jpg</image:loc><image:title>garbage_can-600x600</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-11-27T00:55:33+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/11/25/is-midlife-a-time-of-calm-or-of-turmoil/</loc><lastmod>2015-11-25T21:09:55+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/11/21/update-so-youre-retired-what-do-you-do-all-day-by-bob-lowry/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/bob-and-wife1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>bob and wife</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/bob-and-wife.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Featured Image -- 1051</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-11-21T19:17:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/11/11/simplification-of-character/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/dilbert-character.jpg</image:loc><image:title>dilbert-character</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-11-11T14:43:11+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/10/31/complicated-grief/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/grief-huffington-post.jpg</image:loc><image:title>GRIEF-huffington post</image:title><image:caption> Image from www.huffingtonpost.com</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-10-31T16:17:07+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/10/16/grandparents-day/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/img_20151016_180210274.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_20151016_180210274</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/supergirl-cover-1748x984.png</image:loc><image:title>supergirl-cover-1748x984</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-10-16T23:39:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/10/07/material-simplification-part-2-hoarding/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/hoarding-buried-alive.jpg</image:loc><image:title>hoarding; buried alive</image:title><image:caption>Out-of-Control Accumulation. From the show Hoarding: Buried Alive.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-10-07T15:06:58+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/09/14/conversing-with-dementia/</loc><lastmod>2015-09-14T22:43:32+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/09/05/physical-simplification-part-3-disability/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/crutches.jpg</image:loc><image:title>crutches</image:title><image:caption>Image from clubwarehouse.com.au</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-09-05T19:38:41+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/08/21/physical-simplification-part-2-performance/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/calvin-spring-classic-copy.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Calvin Spring Classic - Copy</image:title><image:caption>Me pushing my pace at the Calvin Spring Classic</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-08-21T00:57:25+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/08/12/physical-simplification-part-i-appearance/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/wrinkled-lady.png</image:loc><image:title>wrinkled-lady</image:title><image:caption>Image from http://www.realresults2020.com</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-08-12T14:57:33+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/07/15/aging-well-the-puritan-way/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/richard-baxter.jpg</image:loc><image:title>richard baxter</image:title><image:caption>Richard Baxter</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-08-01T15:51:23+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/07/31/small-nightmares-that-i-hope-will-develop-into-great-dreams-mourid-barghouti/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/the-secret-of-music-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Ali Hassanein, a 54-year-old oud maker works in Ramallah. Every day life in Palestine. (Photo MaanImages)</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/palestine-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Preparations are underway in the Old City of Jerusalem for the holy night of Laylat al-Qader on Monday.</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/paestine-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Israeli forces raided Dheisheh refugee camp near Bethlehem early Monday and threatened locals, witnesses said. Every Day Life in Palestine.</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-07-31T20:24:53+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/07/24/simplification-of-status/</loc><lastmod>2016-02-01T00:41:07+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/06/30/midlife-complexity-to-late-life-simplicity/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/simplify.png</image:loc><image:title>simplify</image:title><image:caption>Image from theaposition.com</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-06-30T15:01:04+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/06/23/loss-and-simplification-in-later-adulthood/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/file-cabinet-coolclips_busi0347.jpg</image:loc><image:title>file cabinet CoolClips_busi0347</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-06-30T00:43:10+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/06/11/what-is-the-primary-psychological-task-of-late-adulthood/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/ron-rolheiser-color.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Ron-Rolheiser-color</image:title><image:caption>Ronald Rolheiser</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/erik-erikson.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Erik Erikson</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-06-12T12:21:04+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/05/30/i-went-to-a-concert-by-myself-so-can-you/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/single-person-households.png</image:loc><image:title>Single Person Households</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/gr-symphony-st-csphoto3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>GR Symphony St. C'sphoto3</image:title><image:caption>Grand Rapids Symphony. Photo from grsymphony.org</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-05-30T00:40:36+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/05/19/the-old-age-style/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/rembrandt_conspiracy_of_julius_civilis.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Rembrandt_Conspiracy_of_Julius_Civilis</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/tizian-martyrdom-of-saint-lawrence.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Tizian Martyrdom of Saint Lawrence</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/michelangelo-the-conversion-of-saul.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Michelangelo The conversion of Saul</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-05-19T00:05:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/04/28/sex-and-dementia/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/henry-rayhons-bloomberg.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Henry Rayhons-Bloomberg</image:title><image:caption>Henry Rayhons. Photo by Daniel Acker/Bloomberg</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-28T19:59:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/04/21/retirement-leisure-vs-sabbath-rest/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/garden-of-eden-jacob-de-backer.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Garden of Eden, Jacob de Backer</image:title><image:caption>Garden of Eden, by Jacob de Backer. </image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-21T18:40:44+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/04/13/stress-management-in-older-adulthood/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/stress-gray-hair-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>stress-gray-hair-1</image:title><image:caption>Turmoil or Not? Image from health.howstuffworks.com</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-13T13:24:21+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/03/31/doing-and-being-in-elderhood/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/p9041960.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title><image:caption>Dad in 2012, when I first moved home.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-03-31T19:45:43+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/03/22/success-then-poverty-william-mcphersons-story/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/william-mcpherson.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Rerelease of William McPherson's "Testing the Current"</image:title><image:caption>William McPherson. Image by Matt Roth, Chicago Tribune</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-03-22T00:34:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/03/07/retiring-among-the-like-minded-or-not/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/sun-city-parade.jpg</image:loc><image:title>sun city parade</image:title><image:caption>Parade at Sun City. Photo credit: Time Magazine</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-03-07T13:30:30+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/02/24/retirement-do-we-have-to-do-what-we-want-to-again-today/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/tournier-learn-to-grow-old.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Tournier Learn to grow old</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-02-24T20:56:30+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/02/16/ash-wednesday-youre-gonna-die/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/ash-wednesday.jpg</image:loc><image:title>ash-wednesday</image:title><image:caption>Ash Wednesday (image from http://thecall.rts.edu)</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-02-16T12:59:40+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/02/05/retirement-leisure-and-the-protestant-work-ethic/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/the-hammock.jpg</image:loc><image:title>R-20100810-0069.jpg</image:title><image:caption>“The Hammock,” by James Jacques Joseph Tissot. Courtesy National Gallery of Art, Washington.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/screenshot-6.png</image:loc><image:title>Screenshot (6)</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-02-05T00:55:47+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/01/20/the-down-side-of-generativity/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/dr-sid-gilman.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Dr. Sid Gilman</image:title><image:caption>Dr. Sid Gilman. Photo from the New York Times</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-20T18:51:10+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/01/10/generativity/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/p5020868.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title><image:caption>My College Prof Days--With Graduating Psych Majors and Psych Faculty</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-10T18:28:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/11/13/adaptation/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/adaptation.jpg</image:loc><image:title>adaptation</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-09T14:17:15+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2015/01/03/adaptation-at-the-movies/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/birdmanposter.jpg</image:loc><image:title>BirdmanPoster</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-03T16:37:55+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/12/27/dad-descartes-and-dementia/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/pc252447.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title><image:caption>Dad With His Great-Grandson Theo, Christmas, 2013</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-08T17:25:45+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/12/24/come-lord-jesus/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/candle.jpg</image:loc><image:title>candle</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-25T02:24:12+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/12/11/grief-and-spirituality-after-midlife/</loc><lastmod>2015-03-07T03:45:12+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/11/26/midlife-grief-late-life-happiness/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/atlantic-dec-14.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Atlantic Dec 14</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-11-26T12:34:45+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/11/22/midlife-more-slough-than-crisis/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/happiness-u-curve.jpg</image:loc><image:title>The Happiness U-Curve. Image from theatlantic.com</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-11-22T15:04:07+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/11/03/no-one-writes-to-the-colonel-and-thats-a-bad-thing/</loc><lastmod>2014-11-03T14:58:26+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/11/01/olderhood-com/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/olderhood-logo.jpg</image:loc><image:title>olderhood logo</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-11-03T23:17:46+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/10/29/healthy-aging/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/george_vaillant.gif</image:loc><image:title>george_vaillant</image:title><image:caption>George Vaillant</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-10-29T21:11:08+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/10/23/are-elderly-parents-an-emotional-weight-for-their-children/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/emanuel-ezekiel.gif</image:loc><image:title>Emanuel, Ezekiel</image:title><image:caption>Ezekiel Emanuel. Image from upenn.edu</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-10-23T21:58:52+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/10/14/hoping-to-die-at-75/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/aging-with-grace.png</image:loc><image:title>Aging with Grace</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-01-20T02:33:49+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/10/04/do-we-become-more-virtuous-as-we-age/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/fred-phelps.jpg</image:loc><image:title>fred-phelps</image:title><image:caption>Fred Phelps. We don't all get better with age.  (AP Photo/Charlie Riedel)</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-10-23T13:23:55+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/09/27/if-we-all-live-to-100/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/lifespan-graph.png</image:loc><image:title>Lifespan graph</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-09-27T14:29:33+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/09/16/not-ready-to-be-old/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/dad-at-piano-probably-1994.jpg</image:loc><image:title>dad at piano, probably 1994</image:title><image:caption>Dad at the piano, probably in 1994</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/dad-and-mom-christmas-90.jpg</image:loc><image:title>dad and mom Christmas 90</image:title><image:caption>Dad and Mom, December, 1990</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-10-05T13:26:23+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/09/05/james-a-ritzema-rip/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/dad-obit.jpg</image:loc><image:title>dad obit</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/dad-at-piano.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title><image:caption>Dad in 2008, playing at a nursing home.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-09-11T00:47:45+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/08/26/the-two-phases-of-retirement/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/steve-vernon.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Steve Vernon</image:title><image:caption>Steve Vernon</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-08-26T14:08:19+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/08/16/a-middle-aged-suicide/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/robin-williams.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Robin Williams</image:title><image:caption>Robin Williams in 2011. Photo by Walter McBride/Corbis</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-08-16T21:18:25+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/08/06/mom-on-her-own/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/p6302598.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title><image:caption>After</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/p6252597.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title><image:caption>Before</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/mom-at-pentwater.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Mom at Pentwater</image:title><image:caption>Mom at Pentwater</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-08-13T14:12:46+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/07/30/roger-ebert-life-itself-and-change/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/life-itself.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Life Itself</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-11-27T15:09:00+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/07/23/generativity-at-the-movies/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/chef-movie.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Chef-Movie</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-10-08T21:25:38+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/07/17/more-on-schweitzer-and-maturity/</loc><lastmod>2014-07-17T19:12:10+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/07/09/the-holy-fool/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/the-holy-fool.jpg</image:loc><image:title>the holy fool</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-09-16T00:55:40+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/03/25/becoming-a-practicing-psychologist-how-i-now-view-it/</loc><lastmod>2014-07-08T19:41:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/07/01/can-you-spare-me-a-dime-getting-ready-for-the-journey/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/p6042536.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-07-17T16:07:56+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/06/24/alzheimers-misconceptions/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/alzheimers-facts.png</image:loc><image:title>Alzheimers facts</image:title><image:caption>Graphic by The Alzheimer's Association</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-06-30T12:16:34+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/06/18/albert-schweitzer-on-maturity/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/albert_schweitzer_1955.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Albert_Schweitzer_1955</image:title><image:caption>Albert Schweitzer</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2023-11-06T04:03:54+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/06/11/the-week-before-dad-left/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/p6042543.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title><image:caption>Dad, my brother, and I in dad's new room.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-06-12T21:55:02+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/06/05/what-it-is-like-for-dad-to-be-gone/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/p6052546.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/p6052545.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-06-10T21:14:27+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/05/29/why-belong-to-a-church-where-everyone-is-younger-than-me/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/square-inch-meal.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Square Inch Meal</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-09-23T02:15:09+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/05/23/why-are-boomers-working-longer/</loc><lastmod>2014-05-23T12:28:26+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/05/15/caring-and-the-aging-self/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/p7231815.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/nouwen-aging.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Nouwen Aging</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-05-16T19:38:01+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/05/07/are-your-memories-high-or-low-resolution/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/west-side-christian-school.png</image:loc><image:title>West Side Christian School</image:title><image:caption>West Side Christian School, Grand Rapids. I remember lots about it (but not my 4th grade teacher).</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-05-07T21:05:33+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/04/29/news-flash-old-people-are-invisible/</loc><lastmod>2014-04-30T12:18:35+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/04/23/how-older-adults-react-to-adversity/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/epictetus.png</image:loc><image:title>Epictetus</image:title><image:caption>Epictetus</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-23T18:28:24+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/04/09/the-caregiving-cliff/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/cliff-by-jonathan-zandler.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Cliff by Jonathan Zandler</image:title><image:caption>Photo by Jonathan Zandler. Source: Wikimedia Commons</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-09T21:03:29+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/04/01/when-older-adults-think-of-the-dead/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/roger-angell.jpg</image:loc><image:title>roger angell</image:title><image:caption>Roger Angell. Photo: The New Yorker.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-07T14:39:32+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/03/17/the-death-of-a-parent-part-2/</loc><lastmod>2014-03-17T15:56:28+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/03/05/memento-mori/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/david_bailly_vanitas1651.jpg</image:loc><image:title>David_Bailly_Vanitas1651</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/prescription-vanitas-skull.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Prescription Vanitas, Skull</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/self-portrait-martha-hayden.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Self Portrait, Martha Hayden</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/pb212378.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/sedlec-ossuary.jpg</image:loc><image:title>r_seaman@hotmail.com</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-03-05T13:15:45+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/02/27/unfinished-business/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/fritz-perls.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Fritz Perls</image:title><image:caption>Fritz Perls</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-02-27T15:55:25+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/02/20/the-death-of-a-parent/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/mark-slouka.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Mark Slouka</image:title><image:caption>Mark Slouka. Image from chronicle.uchicago.edu.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-02-20T19:03:58+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/02/13/my-life-story-becoming-a-practicing-psychologist/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/spsm.jpg</image:loc><image:title>SPSM</image:title><image:caption>State Prison of Southern Michigan, which was closed in 2007. Image from www.mlive.com</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-02-13T16:21:55+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/02/05/why-older-adults-are-lousy-multitaskers/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/multitasking-christmaholic-nl.jpg</image:loc><image:title>multitasking-Christmaholic.nl</image:title><image:caption>Multitasking. Image from www.Christmaholic.nl</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-02-06T16:31:49+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/01/29/my-midlife-crisis-which-one/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/seasons-of-a-mans-life.png</image:loc><image:title>Seasons of a man's life</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-12-14T18:35:31+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/01/21/faithfulness-in-old-age-john-m-perkins/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/john-m-perkins.png</image:loc><image:title>John M. Perkins</image:title><image:caption>John M. Perkins</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-01-21T21:30:32+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/01/15/my-sacred-journey/</loc><lastmod>2014-01-15T20:19:44+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/01/11/interview-caring-for-an-elderly-parent/</loc><lastmod>2014-01-11T15:33:57+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2014/01/04/spiritual-journeys/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/soul-searchers.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Soul Searchers</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-01-04T16:12:41+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/12/30/a-five-sentence-life-story/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/kent-hall.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kent Hall</image:title><image:caption>Kent Hall, Kent State University--where I studied psychology.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-12-30T16:27:50+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/12/22/on-being-old-enough-to-have-a-stress-free-christmas/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/pb231993.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/lynne-hybels.png</image:loc><image:title>Lynne Hybels</image:title><image:caption>Lynne Hybels</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-12-22T18:56:05+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/12/17/hi-im-bob-and-im-redeployed/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/p6241935.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title><image:caption>A month after my retirement reception--what am I now?</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-12-17T02:25:15+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/12/07/life-review/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/gaea-yudron.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Gaea Yudron</image:title><image:caption>Gaea Yudron</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-12-07T20:00:36+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/12/02/if-we-no-longer-retire-what-will-we-do-when-we-get-old/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/man-on-hammock.jpg</image:loc><image:title>man on hammock</image:title><image:caption>No longer what we aspire to do in retirement? Image from www.comingunmoored.com/2009</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-12-13T16:15:16+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/11/25/meeting-our-parents-again/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/roy-in-reds-wrap.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Roy in Red's Wrap</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-11-25T17:29:02+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/11/15/the-history-of-retirement/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/gallup-retirement-age.gif</image:loc><image:title>gallup--retirement age</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-11-15T21:25:29+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/10/30/retirement-is-changing-is-that-good-or-bad/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/tom-palome.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Tom Palome</image:title><image:caption>Tom Palome</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-11-11T16:24:26+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/11/09/in-the-middle-of-the-night/</loc><lastmod>2013-11-09T19:15:15+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/11/04/reinvention-or-renewal/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/pb042366.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-03-25T11:58:46+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/10/07/the-blessings-of-old-age/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/sister-joan-chittister.jpg</image:loc><image:title>sister joan chittister</image:title><image:caption>Sister Joan Chittister</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-10-07T21:31:01+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/09/30/spiritual-and-emotional-maturity-interview/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/cropped-flower.jpg</image:loc><image:title>flower</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-09-30T13:26:11+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/09/21/how-well-do-you-grant-your-parents-independence/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/mom-and-sisters-1999.jpg</image:loc><image:title>mom and sisters, 1999</image:title><image:caption>My mother (furthest left) and her sisters, 1999.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/lost-boys.jpg</image:loc><image:title>lost boys</image:title><image:caption>Christmas, 2000--With the Lost Boys</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-09-21T14:26:25+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/09/13/are-boomers-charitable-2/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/dollar-bills.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Dollar-Bills</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-09-13T21:24:41+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/09/07/on-not-starting-school/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/classroom-of-empty-chairs1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>classroom-of-empty-chairs1</image:title><image:caption>Source: Thompson Information Services</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-09-07T17:15:39+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/09/03/gray-divorce/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/denisetamir.jpg</image:loc><image:title>DeniseTamir</image:title><image:caption>Denise Tamir</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/susan-brown.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Susan Brown</image:title><image:caption>Susan Brown</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/peter-everts.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Peter Everts</image:title><image:caption>Peter Everts</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-09-03T13:38:14+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/08/27/social-media-might-reduce-discomfort-with-death/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/scottsimon.jpg</image:loc><image:title>scottsimon</image:title><image:caption>Scott Simon</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-08-28T17:13:01+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/08/20/who-is-art-for/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/inchfest2012.jpg</image:loc><image:title>inchfest2012</image:title><image:caption>Inchfest 2012</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-08-21T13:24:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/08/15/deep-time/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/img002.jpg</image:loc><image:title>img002</image:title><image:caption>The Ossuary at Verdun</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/img001.jpg</image:loc><image:title>img001</image:title><image:caption>The Memorial at Waterloo</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-08-24T22:43:47+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/08/07/preparing-for-an-aging-population/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/austin_texas.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Austin_Texas</image:title><image:caption>Austin, Texas, a city that is actively preparing to meet the needs of seniors.  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Ten of us were at the reunion.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-06-29T23:58:54+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/06/23/older-adults-are-entering-psychotherapy-in-larger-numbers/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/marvin-tolkin.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Marvin Tolkin</image:title><image:caption>Marvin Tolkin, whose therapy was described in the Times article.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/gondola3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/gondolas.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-06-23T22:44:56+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/06/18/interview-pastoral-care-for-older-adults/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/p6162248.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title><image:caption>LaGrave Avenue Christian Reformed Church</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-07-20T12:58:56+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/06/14/who-are-our-grandchildren/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/p4212179-r.jpg</image:loc><image:title>???????????????????????????????</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/p4212179.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/pb231996.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/p7041718.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/26920021.jpg</image:loc><image:title>26920021</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/p6140956.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/pc210795.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/1-3-2008-08.jpg</image:loc><image:title>1-3-2008-08</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/calvin-4th-birthday.jpg</image:loc><image:title>calvin 4th birthday</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/calvin-3-17-06.jpg</image:loc><image:title>calvin, 3-17-06</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-06-14T17:37:58+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/06/06/caregiver-guilt-its-not-all-bad/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/shame-and-guilt.jpg</image:loc><image:title>shame and guilt</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-06-07T13:13:56+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/06/01/getting-medicare-the-boring-details/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/medicare-symbol.jpg</image:loc><image:title>medicare-symbol</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-06-01T12:07:40+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/05/28/does-it-matter-if-you-look-old/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/p2242100.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title><image:caption>My Granddaughter Doesn't Mind My Wrinkles!</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-05-30T12:11:43+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/05/21/becoming-curmudgeonly-progress-report/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/nino_tempo_and_april_stevens-deep_purple.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Nino_Tempo_and_April_Stevens-Deep_Purple</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-06-04T02:06:36+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/05/17/could-you-be-happy-with-als/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/ed-dobson.png</image:loc><image:title>ed dobson</image:title><image:caption>Ed Dobson.  Photo: Mlive</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-05-17T13:44:47+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/05/13/in-case-youre-wondering-if-you-live-on/</loc><lastmod>2013-05-14T00:55:20+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/05/08/wish-id-had-the-courage-to-live-a-life-true-to-myself/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/bronnie-ware.jpg</image:loc><image:title>bronnie Ware</image:title><image:caption>Bronnie Ware</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-05-08T00:45:28+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/05/03/depression-in-older-adults-treatment/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/prozac10c.jpg</image:loc><image:title>prozac10c</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-05-03T23:43:09+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/05/01/older-adults-month/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/older-adults-month.png</image:loc><image:title>older adults month</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/gray_panthers-pbs.jpg</image:loc><image:title>gray_panthers pbs</image:title><image:caption>Gray Panthers Demonstration, 1979.  Picture--PBS/Independent Lens</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-05-01T15:41:29+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/04/23/john-paul-ii-on-contributions-of-the-elderly-wisdom-and-story/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/john-paul-ii-google-images.jpg</image:loc><image:title>John Paul II-Google Images</image:title><image:caption>John Paul II.  Credit--Google Images.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/p5250896-dad.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title><image:caption>Dad in Uniform, Memorial Day, 2009</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-04-23T13:07:10+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/04/17/on-the-superfluity-of-electric-power-the-internet-and-other-newfangled-inventions/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/thurbers-grandmother.png</image:loc><image:title>Thurber's Grandmother</image:title><image:caption>Thurber's Grandmother</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-04-17T20:40:04+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/04/14/depression-in-older-adults-the-role-of-stress/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/p6070138-umbrellas.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-02-12T07:23:51+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/04/10/should-we-become-elderly-or-just-grow-old/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/william-h-thomas.jpg</image:loc><image:title>william h thomas</image:title><image:caption>William H. Thomas</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-04-11T19:35:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/04/08/did-you-see-the-500lb-gorilla/</loc><lastmod>2013-04-08T17:53:27+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/04/03/depression-in-older-adults-causes/</loc><lastmod>2013-04-03T15:39:35+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/03/30/the-reluctant-caregiver-and-agape/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/id-100106731-freedigitalphotos-net.jpg</image:loc><image:title>ID-100106731--freedigitalphotos.net</image:title><image:caption>Picture courtesy of imagerymajestic/freedigitalphotos.net</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-03-30T20:24:15+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/03/27/depression-in-older-adults-symptoms/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/face-lower.jpg</image:loc><image:title>face</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/p6100342-face.jpg</image:loc><image:title>face</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-03-28T21:45:11+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/03/23/i-am-enjoying-dying/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/gordon-cosby.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Gordon Cosby</image:title><image:caption>Gordon Cosby, an older adult who stayed passionate to the end. Photo by Kevin Clark/The Washington Post</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-08-01T13:52:51+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/03/21/86/</loc><lastmod>2013-03-21T21:10:15+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/03/19/the-day-of-darkness-bring-in-the-candles/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/candle.jpg</image:loc><image:title>candle</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/abraham_davenport.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Abraham_Davenport</image:title><image:caption>Abraham Davenport</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-03-19T18:50:55+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/03/13/what-matters-most-to-assisted-living-residents/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/martin-bayne.png</image:loc><image:title>Martin Bayne</image:title><image:caption>Martin Bayne</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-03-13T20:24:06+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/03/06/boomer-health/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/mary-and-jim-skiing.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Mary and Jim skiing</image:title><image:caption>Boomers (my sister and brother-in-law) exercising.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-03-06T17:53:51+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/02/26/looking-ahead/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/pc250026.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title><image:caption>My family homestead.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-02-26T20:15:14+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/02/26/nursing-home-ratings/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/us_newslogo.png</image:loc><image:title>US_newslogo</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-02-26T20:10:33+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/02/20/dealing-with-the-regrets-of-late-adulthood/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/erik-erikson.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Erik Erikson</image:title><image:caption>Erik Erikson</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2025-05-03T01:00:58+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/02/19/segregated-seniors/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/mary-bodel.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Mary Bodel</image:title><image:caption>Mary Bodel</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-02-19T00:59:43+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/02/16/does-activity-increase-the-happiness-of-older-adults/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-16T15:23:01+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/02/16/dementia-caregiving-and-spirituality/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/noactlove.jpg</image:loc><image:title>NoActLove</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-02-16T14:52:50+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/about-2/</loc><lastmod>2023-06-27T20:18:19+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com/2013/02/14/about-this-blog/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-14T21:26:56+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://beyondhalfway.com</loc><changefreq>daily</changefreq><priority>1.0</priority><lastmod>2025-11-01T20:20:44+00:00</lastmod></url></urlset>
